I emphatically concur with your piece. I have to admit that I am not accustomed to such candor coming from your angle 👀 which is a contributive and refreshing take and critique😊.
From my perspective the sincere fictions as seen through the patriarchal lens stems from the ‘cult of true womanhood’, formerly and interchangeably known too as the “cult of domesticity”. The obsessive yearn to preserve some aspect of anglo-saxon virtues of true womanhood along with its steadfast projection of race/class-worthy standards and its remnants are a conforming remix today. It is being used to promote anti-feminist values which proffer “good intentions’’ along with racial/privilege rewarding and symbolism.