For the love for details
If you ever asked me what is the most important talent in the world I would immediately tell you that it is the ability to recognize details.They expose people like nothing else.
I have grown into a man who carefully examines every inch of my life.
The woman I love, my family, my friends, my house, the software I write at work - they are all things which I carefully inspect every day. I usually remember every word a human says to me and I’ve grown to be very good in carefully connecting every single bit of information they provide to me intentionally or not. There’s a very good saying in the Bible :
Proverbs 21:23 Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity.
It is very important to carefully communicate the bits of information almost like you are flipping switches in a nuclear reactor. One wrong switch and you will be blown to bits. Or worse, you would be completely naked in front of another human. And I love humans, but I sure as hell don’t trust them. I don’t trust myself either. The human mind can be completely irrational. That’s why sometimes being naked in front of somebody feels good.
Love is when you touch every single detail of an object, and you accept it, even through you understand it is irrational and might completely destroy you.
Written with love,
Hristo