How To Be Properly Brokenhearted.

ipronounceyou
2 min readMar 9, 2017

Be as shitty as you can be.

Go cry as hard as you can until your lungs give up.

Go and get mad to universe.. Shout all nasty words you got in your dictionary to the wind.

Go and stare at the wall remembering all the good memories until you sleep with it because you can’t do a shit to it.

Then cry another more while you delete your lover’s presence from your life.

You can also sing to the songs that remind you of your lover. While crying if you want, because you are allowed to be broken.

Go and feel horrible for a whole day without ever leaving your bed.

Go and write whetever happened and burn it all.

Go do it and cry some more.

Be pathetic for as long as it takes to accept everything.

Be dead if you must.

Take your time.

No need to rush for anything; they could wait.

Then wake up, dust yourself off, prepare yourself to start a new life.

But leave whatever killed you and the past in your coffin and never open it.

Well, you can take the things that could give you the strength for tomorrow. The courage to face another human being that might be your next lover. The wisdom so you won’t repeat the same mistake.

Then buy yourself a new awesome clothes, shoes, jeans, sweaters or whatever that could make you feel radiant in your new skin.

Be alone and slowly forget all.

Get yourself new books, and live in each of it as you flip the pages.

Have a lot of fun with your best friends.

Buy them drinks.

Take them to a movie.

Treat yourself for a festivity.

Because you’ve been resurrected, my friend!

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