The Feeling of being Interested in People
The universe is made up of some elements , the beauty lie within these elements. A question comes to the mind what are these elements for? Sun gives light/energy for the life , Moon is gravity for the sky kissing shores. All of these elements have some purpose. Humans are just like one of these elements. The purpose behind their existence is to give light and gravity to other people around them. Aristotle said that;
“Man is by nature a social animal; an individual who is unsocial naturally and not accidentally is either beneath our notice or more than human. Society is something that precedes the individual. Anyone who either cannot lead the common life or is so self-sufficient as not to need to, and therefore does not partake of society, is either a beast or a god. ”
The only thing that makes a difference between animal and social animal is the word Social. To be social means to be interested in people around you thats the purposeful life. I am writing this blog in perspective of being assigned to write about “ being interested in others”. After reading a chapter from named How to win friends and influence people by Dale-Carnegie quotes;
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” — Dale Carnegie
The more interest you show in other people in turn they will show a reciprocal responce. I found it myself when I contacted all the people’s contact numbers in my phone. Their responses were filling me like a fuel. I was feeling a positivity in myself after talking about others. Although some people respond not caring at that time I thought I’ll keep my practice ongoing in a same way untill they feel important for me.