Being Interested in Others
Interested in someone means that we must be very much devoting towards others and that we have not to think about ourselves while talking to others. Only then we can realize others that they are worth to us. Talking about the living creatures on earth every creature has its own purpose of living like we have hens in our houses because we our benefit behind this and that is hen lays eggs. But the only animal that does not have to work for any kind of living is dog. Dog is the most faithful animal. He never deceives his owner at any cost. That’s why there is a strong bond between the owner of the dog and the dog. The dog is interested in the owner and the owner is interested in the dog.
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. If we merely try to impress people and get people interested in us, we will never have many true, sincere friends. Friends, real friends, are not made that way. Real friends are those who are helpful to you in the time of suffering. Just like a dog is helpful to the owner in many ways when the owner is in danger.
A show of interest as with every other relations must be sincere,it must pay off not only for the person showing the interest BUT for the person receiving the attention,It is a two way street both parties get benefits.
So, in the end I would like to say that if we want to live a complete life,If you want others to like you,If you want to develop real friendship we should keep the principle in mind become genuinely interested in other people.
LESSON I LEARNED
In this activity I learned to be interested in people I met with different people and know about their life what happened in their past and what are there perspectives in future and I observe about different aspects like some people are thinking optimistically about their future, some have negative thinking because they discouraged because of certain events that happens in their life, some people react in anger when i ask about some personal matters such as family matter, and some tell their story happily and their future goals and I suggest some instructions to achieve their goal. In this activity I learned the how to get a good, true and sincere Friendship. In future I would like to interact with different people, try to be interested in them, try to know about the nature of people.