I hear you and I understand. Sometimes a person needs to know that they are not all alone with their problems, and from all the kind comments you’ve received, it is apparent that you are not. I have ‘staying too long in the bathroom’ problems too. These kind of problems can impact ones life to the point of utter frustration, and then, to add insult to injury, it’s a ‘icky’ subject that most people are too embarrassed to talk about. Which I totally understand coming from their perspective, but still, sometimes a person needs to confide in another person, vent for a bit, and know they have a shoulder to lean on. If you should ever find yourself in need of shoulder to lean on and a ear to listen(or eyes to read) know that I, as well as many other ‘Mediumites’, will always be there for you.