The Power of Acceptance
Over the years I realized a commonality that kept showing up within my relationships with men — friendships and romantic relationships — that made me wonder, caused me frustration and frequently led to misunderstandings. It was this phenomenon of men withdrawing on a regular basis. I can totally see you move your head in agreement. It’s a very common female complaint when it comes to relationships overall.
Now, I am not a relationship expert or even a dating/marriage coach; however, I am an expert in the field of human individuality, transformation, sociology and emotional intelligence which gives me a unique insight into the deepest places of our being.
At the beginning of my relationship with my husband, we created many exciting goals and visions for the next few years ahead. I was so happy to see that we were on the same page in all major areas of life together as a couple. That was a reason to celebrate.
I got all fired up, made detailed plans to accomplish these huge goals. I am more of a go-getter, whereas my husband tends to lean back and let things unfold. This ability to let things unfold can be a great skill to have, or it can be a really frustrating trait — at least for the other party involved.
One day I had a call scheduled with my coach. She asked me what I wanted to work on for that day. I was quiet for a second…
