The paradox of the metal community is huge: while non metalheads think its all violent and kicking each other with big boots, I often feel like metalheads are usually quite accepting towards one another and our quirks. As a woman, I do feel like a duckling that splashed into the wrong pond sometimes. I was not aware of this huge and appaling nazi elephant in the room.. it is time these people learned from your friend in the park. Perhaps you and me can throw horns together someday. Keep rocking.