Jaime A. Heidel
Sep 4, 2018 · 1 min read

OMG! This article literally brought tears to my eyes. Thank you SOOO much for this. I’m a queer woman, and many of the encounters I’ve had have centered so much around the “orgasm” (including in my own head) that there wasn’t a lot of room for enjoyment. The foreplay was great, but the sexual act itself became so much more about “Am I going to disappoint this person?”

I was just discussing this topic with someone recently, and this article is so very validating.

Thank you!

    Jaime A. Heidel

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    Opinionated, sarcastic Aspie with a big heart who expresses herself best through writing. #GenX #Liberal #LGBTQI #TheEcho