I have based my thoughts only on the latest posts say by Violet oh Violet and Meg — off the top of my head. My conclusions are just speculative, based on bits and pieces of the thread.
It is all confusing indeed. I could not see anything from the girl in question . She is suddenly quite silent after a previously intense exchange. She never spoke with me directly. I was just an observer basically , having stumbled on some of the posts of the people I follow.
I can always be wrong, of course. That is the thing about this type of “disembodied” communication. Just words, no body language , no eye contact, everything is a subject to individual interpretation. Various strong emotions at play from each person involved and no hard facts really .