A Memoir of Learning to Be Happy with Doing Your Best
Accepting your imperfection and finding joy in the process
Dear me,
It’s easy to get caught up in the pressure of continuously achieving more and improving over time as you go through life. Society has taught us that success and happiness are primarily determined by our efforts and achievements. But, life is a journey, and the joy is found in the voyage itself.
As human beings, we all strive for happiness in our lives. And yet, we are so frequently caught up in the pursuit of success and perfection that we lose sight of what it genuinely means to be happy. We get lost in the idea that we must be the best, that we must exceed all expectations, that we must always be striving for more. But what if I told you that by doing your best and finding joy in the process, you can live a truly fulfilling life?
I want you to understand that it’s okay to not be perfect and it’s also fine not to be happy all of the time. It is acceptable to make errors, stumble, and fall. Life is about learning and developing from our experiences, not about being faultless. It’s about doing the best we can with what we have and finding enjoyment in the effort we put forward.
Of course, doing your best isn’t always simple, and it takes focus and effort. However, the reward of knowing you gave it your best is well worth the effort. The happiness and fulfillment that result from carrying out your responsibilities to the best of your ability cannot be found in accomplishments outside of yourself or approval from others.
Many things in life are beyond our control. Instead of worrying about such things, concentrate on what you can manage. Take time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for, no matter how small they may seem. Happiness will come naturally if you focus on the positive aspects of your life.
Everyone has their own path and timeline. What works for someone else might not work for you, and that’s fine. Appreciate your own growth and progress, and have faith that your path will take you precisely where you need to go.
And it’s also important to recognize that happiness is not a continual feeling. It’s natural to feel a variety of emotions, including sadness, anger, and frustration, as well as joy and pleasure. Life is a sequence of ups and downs, and it’s normal not to be happy all of the time. By understanding and appreciating our emotions, we may learn to manage them and appreciate the moments of bliss even more.
Dear me~ let’s make a commitment to be kind to ourselves, no matter how small it is. It can be as simple as starting to thank yourself, prioritizing your own needs, making time for activities that make you happy and relaxed, or even just smiling when a bad day comes your way. Continue to give it your best, and remember that happiness is a journey worth taking, not a destination.
Focus on what you are grateful for and try to see the positive in every situation. Keep in mind that mistakes and setbacks are chances for development and learning.
Above all, be kind with yourself. Treat yourself with the same love and compassion that you would show to a persons you care about. Remember that you’re doing your best, and that’s all that matters.
— by Dita Izaty
(Inspired by one of Charlotte Austin’s tweets ~ 🐰🥕)
Thank you for taking the time to read my writing. I hope to see you again on my next blog. Take care of yourself and continue to learn until then ~ 👋💙
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