I think you are both right.

If your ‘yes’ is tied to a purpose, a why and even excitement it is worth saying yes.

If your ‘no’ is also to the same purposes and why then it makes it very clear. And sometimes the no can be a test or ‘let’s chat more about it’ to find out more to see if it’s worth a yes.

Both your yes and no have an impact on you, your family and ultimately the direction of your life… So choose wisely on which you use!