A Text Message with Perspective

Jack Evin Butler
Aug 22, 2017 · 2 min read

I just got a text from a friend letting me know that a mutual friend’s mother just passed away. Reading that message literally took my breath away. Today was a tough day for me mentally. I have been beating myself up a lot lately for not being happy with where I’m at in life. And while all of the feelings I feel are very real. This text message put so much of my emotional state back into perspective.

My condolences go out to my friend and their family. My heart hurts because I know this person’s heart is aching in ways I can’t understand and I can do nothing but respect their desire for space to grieve with their family.

And while that is true, it is also a real reminder that life is short, nothing lasts forever, and you should cherish those close to you. So to the people in my life who I love and appreciate but sometimes neglect to give enough attention to, my vibes go out to you. And no matter what we may be going through individually or with each other, know that I appreciate how you’ve shaped my world and all that you have to offer to the world. I love you. Keep being great.

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Jack Evin Butler

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Black. Curious. Powerful. Coach. Breaking down and reconstructing my worldview as I go.

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