Across the U.S., migrants say they face cramped quarters, soap and disinfectant shortages, and violent threats from guards — When the guards came in on May 6 to tell the detainees that someone in their unit had died, Alberto had already gone 17 days without eating. Dozens of others in the Otay Mesa Detention Center had done the same, he said. The detainee, a Salvadoran named Carlos Escobar-Mejia who…