Liar! And I mean that in the most positive sense of the word.
Ms. Janet Lake

Oooh be careful Ms. Janet, I think you’re right that we all lie to keep out of trouble and not to hurt feelings etc. etc. all white lies. I see it as a personal integrity problem, and trying to censor and manipulate your behaviour all the time is exhausting, stressful and confusing. It might smooth the path in the short term but in my eyes it’s like bending a ruler back in front of your face.