The Narcissist’s Game: How to Spot and Outsmart Them

Jaden Craymer
2 min readMar 3, 2023

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As a software engineer, creative director, and actor, I’ve had my fair share of encounters with narcissistic individuals. In fact, I’ve even dated a few in my past. And let me tell you, it’s not a pretty sight. But don’t worry, I’ve learned the hard way and I’m here to share my tips on how to spot a narcissist and how to outsmart them.

What is a Narcissist?

A Narcissist is a person with an inflated sense of self-importance. They believe they are superior to others and have a strong need for admiration. They can be charming and charismatic at first, but their true colors will eventually show. Narcissists have a tendency to manipulate and exploit those around them for their own gain.

How to Spot a Narcissist

Narcissists can be difficult to spot, but there are a few key signs to look out for. Firstly, they often talk about themselves and their achievements a lot. They also tend to interrupt others and dominate conversations. Additionally, they have a tendency to belittle or criticize others to make themselves feel superior. Lastly, they have a lack of empathy and often don’t take responsibility for their actions.

How to Outsmart a Narcissist

Now that you know how to spot a narcissist, it’s important to know how to outsmart them. Firstly, don’t fall for their charm. Narcissists are experts at manipulating and exploiting others, so it’s important to stay alert. Secondly, don’t give in to their demands. Stand your ground and don’t let them control you. Lastly, don’t engage in arguments with them. They will only escalate the situation and you’ll end up losing. Instead, try to communicate with them in a calm and assertive manner. And if all else fails, it’s best to just walk away from the situation.

And if you want to be fully prepared for any situation, don’t forget to bring along a vacuum insulated Hydro Flask mug. It’ll keep your drinks hot or cold, and you’ll always be ready for any encounter with a narcissistic individual.

Final Thoughts

Narcissists can be difficult to deal with, but with the right tools and strategies, you can outsmart them. Just remember to stay alert, stand your ground, and communicate in a calm and assertive manner. And if all else fails, don’t be afraid to walk away from the situation.

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Jaden Craymer

Software engineer, creative director, and actor with a psychological disorder. No niche. Just me and my brain.