Why Telling the Truth is so Damn Hard (And Why We Hate It)

Jaden Craymer
3 min readApr 13, 2023

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Have you ever had the truth slapped in your face so hard that it actually made your head spin? I have. And let me tell you, it was brutal. Truth hurts… like a lot.

Why do we hate hearing the truth?

Let’s be honest (pun intended), some people just can’t handle the truth. Whether it’s because they’re too fragile, too sensitive, or too ignorant, the truth can often leave us feeling vulnerable, exposed, and sometimes even betrayed. For a lot of us, the truth rocks our world, rips apart the reality we’ve created for ourselves, and forces us to see things in a new light.

But why? Why do we let ourselves get so caught up in lies and deception? Maybe it’s because we’re afraid of ridicule or being labeled as a “bad person.” Or maybe it’s because we’ve been conditioned to think that honesty is not always the best policy, and that telling white lies is acceptable.

Why is telling the truth so damn hard?

In a world where honesty isn’t always the best policy, telling the truth can be a daunting task. For people like me, who suffer from a psychological disorder, the pressure to fit in with society can be overwhelming. So, I’ve learned to use humor and outrageous stories to deflect from my awkwardness and to avoid being labeled as an outsider.

But sometimes, I can’t help but be truthful. The truth just slips out, and before I know it, I’m left dealing with the consequences. And let me tell you, sometimes the consequences are not pleasant. People can react defensively, lash out, or even ostracize you from their lives.

Why tell the truth anyway?

So, if telling the truth is so hard and can lead to negative consequences, why should we bother? Well, for one, the truth sets us free. It allows us to be genuine, authentic, and vulnerable. It also builds trust and strengthens relationships. And let’s be real, lies have a way of catching up with us. They can lead to guilt, shame, and regrets.

Life is too short to spend it hiding behind a facade. So, take the leap, and tell the truth. But be prepared for the consequences (good or bad). Because at the end of the day, being honest with yourself and others is the only way to live a truly fulfilling life.

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The Bottom Line

So, why do people dislike people who tell the truth? Because it’s hard to be vulnerable, it’s hard to face reality, and it’s hard to be honest with ourselves and others. But the truth is worth it.

So, take a deep breath, be brave, and tell the truth. Because in the end, it will set you free.

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Declaration

I declare that the truth shall set us free. Let’s break free from the chains of deceit and live a life of authenticity and honesty.

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The Power of Humor

And last but not least, keep your sense of humor close at hand. Because sometimes, the truth can be too damn hard to handle without a good laugh.

The End

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Jaden Craymer

Software engineer, creative director, and actor with a psychological disorder. No niche. Just me and my brain.