Do you realize what you said? If a woman falls in love with an anatomical male, and that anatomical male — by whatever process it involves changes to a woman — that automatically makes the former person a lesbian — because you believe all trans people were that way from the beginning of time. I mean, you must have known he was a she all along. You learn something about yourself everyday. Well! That is extremely problematic! Not to mention inconvenient. But then I suppose love is necessarily felt at the unconvenience of the person who feels it. So, if your man turns out to have been born a woman, you must except that you we’re actually bisexual the whole time — or you’re certainly transphobic. What else would you be, in that situation? Relationships just got really fucking confusing.