James Christensen LMFTHow to Raise a NarcissistDo you want your child to reach the highest levels of politics, business, or finance? Help them to develop these nine narcissitic traits:Sep 12Sep 12
James Christensen LMFTWhy you Can’t Stop ArguingWhat’s really happening in your relationship?Aug 23Aug 23
James Christensen LMFTWhy are Relationships so Hard?We learn about human relationships in childhoodJul 20Jul 20
James Christensen LMFTTen Principles for Making Marriage WorkPhysical Safety If there is any ongoing threat of physical violence in your intimate relationship, you will be hard-pressed to step into…Jul 18Jul 18
James Christensen LMFT7 Examples of Healthy Relationship ConflictHealthy conflict is good for relationships, and most relationships actually need more conflict, not less. We avoid conflict because we are…Jul 18Jul 18
James Christensen LMFTThe 80/20 Rule in Relationship RepairThe 80/20 rule for relationship distress says that about 80% of the distress you experience in your adult relationship is an emotional…Jul 18Jul 18
James Christensen LMFTRelationship Therapy is like Dance LessonsMy wife and I take dance lessons together every week. The goal of every lesson is to dance a little bit better than we did at the beginning…Jul 15Jul 15
James Christensen LMFTNuclear Security and Emotional SecurityMany years ago I was pilot in command of an airborne nuclear security team in Montana. We needed to coordinate our takeoff time to replace…Jul 5Jul 5
James Christensen LMFTFour Steps to a Better RelationshipStep One: Your Partner Is Not the Source of Your DistressApr 20Apr 20
