advised her to fake the feeling of fitting in until she actually felt like she did.
How to Hack Your Brain to Become Radically More Confident and Less Fearful
Elle Kaplan
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This is so great, I childhood friend of mine had to take a year off between high school and his first year at Alabama, and his professor advised the same thing. These little things help exponentially and just being in that mindset for anything really helps.