I also would like to add that now I can imagine experiences of people being brainwashed by jihadists (and other terrorist organizations) and respect those who resist this abuse.
Those people have grievances, fear and anger (very real) and are told “they” caused problems to your kind, don’t care about you and don’t deserve your empathy (might be true). Hence, “they” deserve to die (not really).
But in my reality human life is more valuable than any cause. NO, manipulators, my emotions are mine to own, not yours. NO, I WILL NOT LET THEM DIE.