What a beautiful thing to say to someone, EK. I'm so blessed by your comment. You've made my day. When I was fitter, thinner and more attractive, I loved being around others. I love asking questions, I love hearing about their lives and about what makes them happiest. Having to "resort" to my listening and caring skills when I felt ugly and unworthy was responded to the same way it was when I was much, much more attractive. That really sent a clear message to me that people (in Thailand, anyway) respond to kindness and warmth - not body weight. Alun and I had an amazing time and I'm already saving for our next holiday xx