Great write-up, by the way.
I sometimes tell others that I chose long ago to as a life project, to become a whole person. So maybe a label for me would be “gender whole”. Hmm, in verbal context I could slur that into “gender whore” to create some ambiguity about what I mean.
I’m thinking we have to take the good with the bad of being in a meat body. I wish you much excitement, love, and joy. (Sorry, eyes are leaking. Have to stop)