Stop Giving A Fuck
This morning I bought The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck audiobook and got through half of the first chapter. I know that I’m not even 10% through the book, but I already understand the true moral of the book: stop giving a fuck.
The other day I was with this amazing girl I’ve been dating for awhile. As the day would go on, I noticed that I would call her ‘baby’. Now, she didn’t mind, but I didn’t want to seem like I was going too fast, so I would apologize or quickly say her name after catching myself. So, over the last few days, its continued to happen and she continued to accept it, but I would still try to defend or explain or apologize for saying it.
However, I was giving too many fucks about how I was saying this word. Once I stopped giving a fuck and started using the word naturally, I truly noticed that she didn’t mind and actually liked it.
This may not be the best example, but you get what I’m trying to say! Giving no fucks is the best way to get results.
I’ve noticed that when I would read articles on how to get women or how to make money quickly, it only spotlighted the fact that I wasn’t good with women and that I was broke. I was giving too many fucks!
Yet, when I finally embraced the fact that I wasn’t that good with women, I stumbled upon this amazing one that I’m dating now. When I came to terms that I was broke, it only allowed me to put focus on why I’m broke and how to solve that problem.
This book is pretty amazing so far! Only a few pages in, and I’m already creating a review about it. Guess what though: no fucks given!