I wish you both luck in finding what you are looking for. I keep believing that my man will one day soon sit in my chair. I’m a cutter (hair stylist), I prefer to cut than to color. Sometimes I feel there hesitance, they want to say something very nice or ask me something but then silence. They tip well, but I think they really want more but are fearful.
Sorry, but that was funny
Your experience with Tinder was almost as bad as mine. I live in NH probably not more than a two hour drive from Burlington. On your next visit maybe we can meet for coffee. I think I am about ready to try another dating site, wish me luck. My choice of men to choose from seems to get smaller and smaller.
I’m…, I can’t seem to think of the right word to describe how I feel. Dating sites like Tinder; I have been on three, seem to give men a license to be pigs. I know Tinder is a hookup site but do you have be vulgar and rude. I just don’t understand why these guys… let me stop here. That’s stupid I know why these guys are on Tinder. Still searching for the right site for my needs.
When we were taking about getting married she asked if I was going to transition. I said no, I said I would die a man. She said that if I ever did transition the marriage would be over. That was 2003, in 2017 I decided to transition. I didn’t keep my promise she kept hers. Marriages are hard anyway add a gender transition it becomes even more…
Love the story, oh! what would I say to my young self? Trying to explain “now” back then would be impossible. As you wrote, the vocabulary did not exist then. I the last few weeks I have meet three 18 year old trans girls. All live as female two on HRT. Could they (I) have existed in the late 70’s early 80's?