Hey Meagan Prins,
Wow, good for you. Having a standard and setting some boundaries is a great way to start the dating scene.
I recently spoke to a guy about this. If you want a car with four wheels, and the other person is OK with three that is just an indication that they are not the right person for you.
Now, STAND YOUR GROUND.
I can tell you from the experience of my wife and my daughter, some men are just in this for themselves. They will want you to change your standard because that is easier than the changes they would have to make to be a great guy.
The really sad thing is that it works. There are people who will change their standards just to have a relationship. Not a good relationship, just any relationship.
As I guy, I admire your standards.