“Out Of Office”
I’ve always laughed when I receive the email auto-reply “OOO” or “On PTO” because it feels more like stiff corporate jargon than a genuine human response. I crave the “real person” in dealings with others and such responses seem like the opposite.
Well, I get it now.
Starting this November 2019, I’m taking my first ever “OOO.”
Yes, I work for myself and don’t have an office. This “OOO” isn’t about geographic location or whether I’m working or not.
This “OOO” is about creating some necessary and healthy space to enjoy life and work. It seems I’ve been “Out Of Office” for myself to cater to the needs of my friends and many wonderful people I know in Austin more than for myself.
No regrets on that. To a large extent that‘s the life I want to lead. But I simply need a break on “helping out” and “favors.”
I love people. Being a connector of people and ideas is something that exhilarates me. It’s something I’ve been pulled into doing a lot of in my 4.5 years in Austin (and frankly pushed myself into as well).
It’s been fun to place multiple friends in jobs. Help people get funding for their businesses. Help connect those with similar interests. Help raise money for charity. Etc etc.
It’s not just been fun, it’s been fruitful too. Quality of life = quality of relationships and to be there in a substantial way for those we care for is a beautiful thing.
And for some reason, I’ve run out of gas when it comes to “favors.” I foresee this being a temporary thing, however, right now “checking this pitch deck” or “connecting you two” or “thinking who I know [for a job, investor, partner]” has lost its juice.
These things which used to energize me, now deplete me.
And now I find myself receiving multiple requests a week unable to bring myself to help out (whereas in the past, I couldn’t help myself but to help out).
So with that, thank you for asking for help. I wrote this specifically for you.
Deep down I do want to help and I’m excited to arrive back from this “vacation” too (seriously, I don’t want to be “OOO”).
But for now, I’m “OOO” working on my projects, spending time with close people, and being still. These are the 3 things I have time for right now.
“Favors” are on pause. I’ll be in touch when I’m “back.” ❤
Clark
