It’s a lot less BS from scammers etc. if you use one that you actually pay for. Srsly, that is about all I got were messages from the “Umm I’m in Kuwait in the military at the moment but I’ll be home soon.” I didn’t wait around for the I’m stuck and need money schtick, I’d heard about it too many times.
I fucking despair I’ll ever find the yin to my yang. If one more person tells me it will happen when I stop looking, I’m going to throttle them.