Brother — The Goal Of Getting A Relationship Is Not Enough

Getting a girlfriend or wife is one thing.

But to be in a relationship with a woman who is WELL-MATCHED, is a whole other level.

What does that even mean?

Well, it first requires you to know (and continually discover) who the hell you are.

  • What makes you happy?
  • What makes you cry? (Do you even cry?)
  • What are your strengths?
  • What are your weaknesses?
  • How do you hide when your emotions get intense?
  • When do you show up most powerfully?

Then it requires you to know what you want in a partner and how you tend to show up with women.

  • What have been your patterns in dating?
  • What unhealthy behaviors do you tend to tolerate?
  • What lessons have you learned?
  • What traits might you be putting on a pedestal because society told you to?
  • What do YOU personally love and value in a woman?

That’s a start.

If you just want a female human to have as a long-term companion and activity partner, then you’ll have an easy box to check off your list.

If you want a woman that is a good fit FOR YOU and you are a good fit FOR HER, that requires a new level of awareness and action.

A great relationship is a vehicle for your growth, not a destination.

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