Brother — The Goal Of Getting A Relationship Is Not Enough
Getting a girlfriend or wife is one thing.
But to be in a relationship with a woman who is WELL-MATCHED, is a whole other level.
What does that even mean?
Well, it first requires you to know (and continually discover) who the hell you are.
- What makes you happy?
- What makes you cry? (Do you even cry?)
- What are your strengths?
- What are your weaknesses?
- How do you hide when your emotions get intense?
- When do you show up most powerfully?
Then it requires you to know what you want in a partner and how you tend to show up with women.
- What have been your patterns in dating?
- What unhealthy behaviors do you tend to tolerate?
- What lessons have you learned?
- What traits might you be putting on a pedestal because society told you to?
- What do YOU personally love and value in a woman?
That’s a start.
If you just want a female human to have as a long-term companion and activity partner, then you’ll have an easy box to check off your list.
If you want a woman that is a good fit FOR YOU and you are a good fit FOR HER, that requires a new level of awareness and action.
A great relationship is a vehicle for your growth, not a destination.