How To Deal With A Backstabbing Friend?

As humans, one of the qualities that we all share in common is the fact that we all need to have people and companions in our life. We all have to create bonding’s that continues to add meaning to our existence. We often feel the need to make sure that we have meaningful relationships in our lives to share our life with. It is practically impossible for any human being to continue living a life where they do not have close relationships to bank on. Irrespective of the kind of person we may be, an introvert or an extrovert, we all will need to have people in our life, who we can address as close friend and family.

Among all these relationships the most unique and yet the most incredible in nature is the friendships that we tend to strike with people. Friendships remain absolutely unique in nature because there is a certain amount of ease that is there when we are with our friends, and then there is the ability to share all those aspects of our life with them that we cannot share with our close relations and even our parents. What makes us cherish the bonding that we have with our friends is the fact that all of these relationships are those that we choose as a part of our life, these are the relationships that eventually turn out to be the witness of the best and the most exotic moments of our life. What we share with our friends is very special, and thus it makes it important that there is a certain amount of responsibility we take to make sure that we are completely responsible in a friendship.

#1. Make Sure You Have A Clear Conversation

Before you take any other step, it is very essential to make sure that you know all the details of the thing that is the bone of contention between the two of you. It is necessary to get to know what is really going on from the person who you consider to be a good friend. If you have the slightest doubt and have got to know about this kind of behavior being exhibited by your friend, then it is important that you make sure you clarify things with this person by holding a clear face to face conversation with this person. This will make sure there is no room for any misunderstanding between the two of you.

Having a clear face to face conversation will also make it possible for you to understand why the other person is doing what they are doing. It is not very easy to accept the fact that someone you consider a friend is doing negative things behind your back to harm you in various ways. But, if you have a word with them, it will be easy to see their point of view, and you will be able to understand better why things have turned out the way they have.

#2. Make Sure You Keep Your Clam

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