Love Yoursef
If you expect someone to love you in order for you to be complete, then you are really broken inside. You will not love that person back. You will only drag that person down with your emotional baggages that it will damage you both completely.
You cannot give what you don’t have. How will you love someone if you don’t love yourself first? It’s not selfishness. It’s not me-first mentality. It’s just how life and love must be.
Love is given wholeheartedly. It’s not demanded. Remember that you must be complete on your own. Know who you are and what you are capable of. Accept who and what you are not.
And only when you are complete can you really share yourself with someone.