Fuck changing yourself
Jessica Semaan

this was a lovely piece, and it’s something i’ve heard and done before in the realm of relationships. i stopped actively trying to find my life partner, and he appeared. i struggle with how to apply this approach to career, food or exercise, pursuing personal projects…. is the real trick to focus on the thing itself (being fulfilled, feeling healthy in your body), not the outcome?

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