Don’t be like the rest of them, darling
Cheating is a fluid term.
Fiipino men cheat a lot and we give them a lot of shit for it and they deserve it. But sometimes what we forget to include in this conversation is that a lot of Filipina women, they like banging married men. 1 out of 10 women are involved with married men. Ang dami namang iba. So many single men out there but there are women that really go for men that are taken. My explanation to this has been the same through the years. Girls like married men because married men are validated by another girl. They are vouched for, indirectly. What does that mean? When a girl decides to marry a man, there must be something good about him and another girl sees them and says “well that girl’s with him there must be something good about that. I need to find out and I’m gonna find out.” I think that’s what it is and we see this in the animal world, I say this all the time. When you’re the lone lion walking around and all the girls are not talking to you that’s because they’re fucking somebody else. The moment you’re able to beat that guy, and other male lion, and get that first girl, all the other lionness all of a sudden wanna fuck you. There’s a lot of single men out there but they’re not validated because they’re, by themselves, single. The married guy, he is the catch because there’s another girl that said he was worth it. Which is really messed up, right? Because he’s not a catch <at all> because he’s a cheater. Because he’s the bad one in the group. But somebody said he was good and that is enough to pique the curiosity of these girls.
Cheating can be forgiven. It just can’t be habitual. No one’s ever gonna admit it until you catch them in the act of having sex or photos. He’s gonna say no, right. <But me> I would go in the mindset of “I don’t believe what you’re saying to me right now. I’m gonna assume the worst, you’ve probably done this to me multiple times already, this is another time that you got caught. I don’t care if you say you haven’t slept with her, I’m assuming you have and I’m not gonna believe what you say. You’re gonna make a way <to make me forgive you>.” Adults fuck. What are they doing in that cheating relationship anyway? What? Have a lollipop and coffee next to each other? No. Adults fuck. We know this. If I caught somebody with a message saying “Hey, I miss you” or “Hey I can’t wait to see you” I don’t give a fuck, there’s nothing you can say that tells me that you guys are not fucking. I know it’s easy to hate on him and on the girl and all of that but that’s not what we’re about right now. It’s about what are you gonna do about it?
