as someone who was brutally raped at gunpoint the very same week that another man forcibly trapped me underneath me in his car and attempted to rape me (only a well-timed and perfectly placed knee to his crotch at the same time i flailed my hand to his side door console to open the auto-lock allowed me to roll out from under him out of the vehicle and onto the ground)- and my [male] roommate’s response? to start fondling my breasts when i finally went to sleep…