Because it’s not a crisis. Let’s have a different conversation. Next year, I will turn 50, God willing. In many ways, this coming year of 50 is something of a surprise. Like blink-you’re in 1st grade-you’re graduated-you’re married-had your first kid-had your first grandkid-blink, you’re 50. I know everyone says it, but it really did happen so quickly. When I…