This resonates deeply with me. I have lost three children by miscarriage in the past ten months, and it has been a time of great loss and grief. I have appreciated most the family and friends who have “held space” for me to just be as I am, in any given moment , as you say. Even if that means eating Cocoa pebbles in the dark! Or, in my case, sitting in silence for hours because I can’t find my voice.