Norms

I went for a therapy session this week, and i was devastated.

The psychologist tackled my weakest darkest spot, now, why would you want to do that? Why would you want to dig the ugliest side of people and try to fix them? When i tried to tell the truth and state my viewpoints, he just kept dropping hints on how i am doing everything wrong. I personally don’t think that there is a CORRECT way to live your life, everyone has different preferences, everyone wants to live it differently, fill it with distinctive colours.

So what if the social/dating patterns are twisted these days? How do you know that it wasn’t twisted before? Why would you even say that it is twisted? Because you never knew what twisted is like from the start anyway. As long as one is content doing whatever they are doing, nothing else matters, at least to me. Of course, there is a certain extent to that, you must still bring about enough to stay in a healthy state, but the rest would be your own call.

Go crazy, do whatever you like.

I’ve always know what i wanted, but somehow it is subconsciously changing me, but in a good or bad way I don’t have the slightest clue.

If one puts on a mask, and kept it on long enough, one will eventually turn into that perfect mask.

For the past 2 months, i have been scolded by my family, best friends, and flings. What is wrong with me? Or is there really a problem with me? When i told them that i care about them, i really do, i might care for heaps of people but i do and somehow they don’t seem to believe me.

If anything, i learnt how to be on my own, how to love myself more, and how to be alright with that because don’t you realise, by the end of the day, we are all back on our own. So what if you are married? You think marriage would be your sweet way out? Before you got married, you had family, marriage’s like family, so if you find yourself lonely even with family around, what makes you think that marriage’s your solution?

Unsurprisingly, there’ll be people out there criticizing/questioning my thoughts and beliefs, but feel free to do so, because by doing so, you are ‘twisted’ yourself, and you are ‘happy’, no?