PREPARING YOURSELF..into that PERFECT WOMAN

(Proverbs 31- The Standard God has set for you) — She laughs!

I know many ladies who have rushed into marriages because they are aging or there’s some sort of pressure from family and friends..

Marriages have collapsed over a year or two because they thought they were ready. It’s quite sad how ladies are eager to tie the knot because of some sort of competition or because their friends are all getting hitched.

Other ladies are still pondering over past hurts and heart breaks that happened decades..It could be that your friend married the man you intended to marry or you are over 30 years and pressure seems to be on you to get married.. But sweetheart, are you really prepared?

How prepared are you for that Man? Are you preparing yourself to the standard God has set for you?

I have equally had my share of heartbreaks and then I began to question God until He led me to Proverbs 31 and asked me” Do you exhibit all the qualities of what the scripture says?” why all i thought? “Atleast i can exhibit some qualities because I’m human! I’m not perfect”..Then I began to realize that God has set a standard for me. Definitely, there’s nothing like a perfect woman or perfect man, but out of her imperfections, she is seen as “perfect”.

“The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”(Genesis‬ ‭2:18‬ ‭NIV‬‬)
I want us to focus on the last bit that says…. “I will make him a helper suitable to Him.” (Gen 2:18 NIV)

The question that l want you to think about is “What am l doing as a single or dating woman to prepare myself to be a help mate for my future husband?”

So it’s not God that is not answering your prayers but until you start working on yourself to become the standard God wants you to be, He will only sit there and watch you until He knows you are ready.

Proverbs 31 (Easy-to-Read Bible) talks about the PERFECT WOMAN while other versions say the Virtuous woman. Are you that kind of woman?

I realized that we all want a Perfect Man to marry but how prepared are you to be that Perfect Woman?

Proverbs 31:10 tells Us that she is not ordinary and not easily approachable because her heart is soo hidden in Christ that if a man wants her, that man has to find Christ first, before finding her. She is not easy to find because she walks with God. You won’t find her in the club or streets wasting her time.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:11 tell Us that she has a job to support her family financially. Her man will depend on her spiritually and physically. He will trust her totally.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men,do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:12 tells Us that she brings unity to her home because she is a peacemaker. Wherever there is a problem at home, she puts in an effort to solve it. She is humble and submissive.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:13 tells Us that she she fixes things. Willing to work manually and provides solution to problems.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:14 tells Us that she provides physical food (cooks very well and serves the family) and spiritual food (prays for the family and teaches them the word of God) .. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:15 tells Us that she knows how to take care of her home and family.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:16 tells Us she is very creative to enhance family wealth. She saves and invests to support her family financially.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:17 tells Us that she is very hardworking and not lazy. She does both her house chores and then goes to work.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:18 tells Us that she gets a job and works hard till late into the night to support her husband put food on the table.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:19 tells Us that she is very creative, an inventor and very hardworking.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:20 tells Us that she helps the needy. She’s a giver and blesses people in any way she can. It could be a prayer, money or material things.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:21 tells Us that she supports her family with her prayers and love, so whenever there is a storm, they overcome. Her family is properly cloth for every season. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:22 tells Us that she takes care of her home and careful it looks the best.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:23 tells Us that because of her, her husband gains respect and honor. Her reputation honors her husband.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:24 tells Us that she is Hardworking and gains income.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:25 tells Us that She knows very well that it will not always be an easy life. She knows that trials come. She does not know what the future will hold, and yet she can laugh at the days that are to come because she has a stronghold that is the Almighty God.She trust and believes that He would never let go of her hand.She simply trust Him!..that gives her the right to laugh at her problems because she knows it’s never a problem before God!.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:26 tells Us that She is a blessing to many nations. She speaks with wisdom and inspires.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:27 tells Us that she does what the family needs. She is not lazy.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:29 tells Us that She is a hero and her family see her as a Blessing.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:30 tells Us that She respects the lord.. Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

Proverbs 31:31 tells Us that her family will praise her in public. She is worth celebrating and most importantly a PERFECT WOMAN! Are you that kind of woman?.. Men, do you want this kind of woman?

I don’t have any experience on marriage because I’m not married yet but graciously, the Word of God expounds expressly on what every woman should do to meet the standard God has set for her.

Trapping a man with pregnancy doesn’t determine how successful your marriage will be, neither dating over a long period of time.

Prepare yourself while single, prepare yourself while dating and if you are already in a marriage, you can still make it fruitful by exhibiting the qualities of a perfect woman.

If you are still single, then God is not ready to share you yet! You are the person God is preparing as the answer to someone’s prayers!.. You still in the learning and preparation process! Trust God and He would lead you to the right path..

Pray for your future husband. You don’t just wake up married one day and start praying for your husband. It needs to start now. Develop the habit of praying for your future husband, that as God develops you and moulds you into the woman that He wants me to be, He will also be moulding and shaping Him into the husband that He wants him to be.

Learn your Proverbs 31 standards. If you don’t have joy in them, pray for God to grow your joy in these area and know that He can.

If it’s how to cook, learn it. If it’s laziness,ask God to make you discipline. If it’s Humility, ask God for it. Pray that the Holy Spirit will gift you with these. Pray that you will grow as you practice.

Whatever it is that you are believing God for, start preparing for it.. Prepare yourself to the standard that God has set for you.. Let Him lead!

Not all men are the same. There are still some decent men out there that know and understand the worth of a Good woman.

Everyone wants loyalty and someone who won’t quit. Forgetting that to get that person, you have to be that person.

Don’t change yourself to win someone’s heart.Stay true and you will find someone who likes you for being you.

You are the Apple of God’s Eye. God loves you so much to ever see you hurt. When one door closes, another door opens. Know that God is working things out behind the scenes.

Please don’t be in a hurry. It may be that God is trying to grow you in an area or two before your marriage, to make it that much sweeter. All things happen in His time. Be obedient to His timing, and surrender your future to Him.

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