Ahh at last common sense has come along! I absolutely love your perspective and approach to Life. In the midst of my reckoning and rumbling there is a part of me that kept screaming for a sign that it’s OK to feel exactly how I am feeling right Now. Dealing with shame is a new concept for me. Pinterest quotes and well/kind thoughts are definitely easy and cheap!! It’s great for when you need a bandaid just to get you through a few hours or perhaps even a few days. But the real work, is allowing yourself to be a human.