Pro-choice is the only way to be pro-life. “Pro-life” was a clever invention, since it implies that the opposite is “anti-life.” The reality could not be further from this. The reality is women dying from botched back alley abortions. The reality is that forced pregnancy is torture. The reality is thousands of kids in foster care, where many fave abuse as you described.
Yes, it is possible to be pro-life and pro-choice. Because if you are not pro-choice, you are anything BUT pro-life.