15 hours agoMember-onlyRediscovering Love After Narcissistic AbuseLove is like God, in that it: a) Does not need your belief in it to continue existing, and, b) Is something that is deeply entrenched in our being, whether we like it or not. A narcissist takes love and shapes it for their own purposes, funnelling it into narcissistic…Narcissism2 min readNarcissism2 min read
1 day agoMember-onlyWhy A Narcissist Gets JealousNarcissists experience jealousy in relationships uniquely, and is driven by how they see and internalise the people in their lives. In short, whether a narcissist experiences jealousy or not depends on: How they have classified you. Where you are in the idealise, devalue and discard cycle. Narcissists see people in…Narcissism2 min readNarcissism2 min read
1 day agoMember-onlyThree Simple Steps For Trauma HealingEvery once in a while, a mine collapses somewhere, trapping the miners beneath the Earth. In the case of survivors, getting them out is often a difficult problem to solve. …Trauma4 min readTrauma4 min read
3 days agoMember-onlyRepetition Compulsion: The Past Haunting The PresentWe all desire love. What differs from person to person is in how they love, and their belief of what love means. In childhood, we love openly and without question. As our experiences pile up, we begin to form a blueprint for how to be in a relationship. When dealing…Psychology4 min readPsychology4 min read
3 days agoMember-only4 Reasons A Narcissist Says No To SexHaving your partner withhold sex in a relationship can be particularly painful. It leaves you feeling unwanted, unworthy, and even repulsive. The question then arises: Why? What is wrong with me? In a normal relationship, a candid conversation can often dispel doubts and recreate the intimacy required to restore the…Narcissism3 min readNarcissism3 min read
4 days agoMember-onlyThe Coming Global Dark AgeJust like all roads led to Rome, all economic, cultural and military roads today lead to the United States Of America. Since World War 2, when the powerful empires of Europe collapsed, and especially since the end of the Cold War, America has stood as the world’s global empire. This…Philosophy3 min readPhilosophy3 min read
4 days agoMember-onlyThe Five Weaknesses All Narcissists HaveIf you ever wondered what it would be like to spend a day in the shoes of a narcissist, look no further. Here are five weaknesses all narcissists have that cause chaos and pain in their lives: They’re Addicts Because their entire sense of self is predicated on a constant stream of…Narcissism3 min readNarcissism3 min read
5 days agoMember-onlyHow A Borderline Tortures A NarcissistThe borderline and the narcissist go together like a river and water. Firstly, the narcissist has an empty core, and is always seeking narcissistic supply. This can come in the form of sex, attention, favours, adulation or just outright energy. The borderline is infantile and gushing with energy. Too much…Borderline Personality3 min readBorderline Personality3 min read
5 days agoMember-onlyCan Narcissism Be Healed?Healing complex trauma is a difficult endeavour fraught with challenges, as the damage done is woven into thousands of experiences while being lodged deep into the person’s being from a young age. It can feel like trying to untangle a thousand-foot string that has been rolling in a washing machine…Narcissism9 min readNarcissism9 min read
6 days agoMember-onlyThe Anatomy Of PowerWords, without power, is mere philosophy. Muhammad Iqbal Empire, war, money, fame; these might be some words that spring to mind when you think of power. To look at influence and control from a historical, militaristic, economic or political lens makes for fascinating study, yet also creates an intellectual web…Power6 min readPower6 min read
