I cannot even bring myself to delete anything just yet. Doing that feels like I will be deleting part of myself; my history — our history. As painful as it is, I don’t want to do that
J: You just wrote what I am feeling but am still too raw to put into form.
Heather Nann

Butting in… my suggestion is to archive the pictures and emails. Some day you will suddenly think, “Hey, this would have been our n anniversary!” And you smile rather than cry as you remember some of the good parts. Photographs are the signposts that lead us back to our memories, so keep them buried — but remember where you buried them.

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