…re — you can scream it at the top of your lungs, but you can’t always change another person’s mind. You can’t make anyone like, love or forgive you. You can’t win their respect if they’re not willing to give it. You just can’t.
5. Holding that grudge is never going to have the effect you’re hoping for.
Unless what you’re really after is prolonging your own pain and unhappiness. If that’s what you’re after, keep it up!