The moment you SWITCH to being a leader and not a savior everything changes.

Jill Ethier
Jul 10, 2017 · 1 min read

I was ‘saving’ my girls in some ways and now I lead them always instead.

The result: they have more confidence, more ability and even more resolve and tools to figure out what’s next. I see how much more powerful it has made them at 18, 9 and 8 years old.

In some ways, I was saving my clients. I was creating the strategy for them instead of showing them how to create it themselves. I was supporting them to get it done instead of training them to change their mindset so they could support themselves.

The result: I show them the tools and how to use them and they can expand and grow without coming back to me every time for support and assistance.

I was saving my husband in our marriage. And now I lead. I create what I truly want in our relationship. He needs to lead himself. I lead myself.

The result: I know who I want to be in the relationship and it’s up to me. I speak my truth.

Where in your life are you being the savior?

When you DECIDE to lead and not save, you increase your energy, realize your power and expand your potential and the possibility to create the life you truly want.

It’s time to be a LEADER not a savior. In ALL areas of your life and business.

Strategize your Life, do YOU!

Jill

www.jillethier.com

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Author of When the Meaning is Lost | Personal Strategist | Energetic Ninja. Working with you to create the life that you desire most. Visit www.jillethier.com.

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