When You’re Here, You’re…Not Always Family, I GuessMy first NFT purchase was a non-fungible Olive Garden. Here’s why it took me almost a year to come around, and what I’ve learned since.Dec 31, 2021Dec 31, 2021
Day 2: Grief and GrandparentsI mean, I definitely fought it with every inch of my being, being from them. Admitting that they are part of me. Even as they’re deep in…Mar 21, 2020Mar 21, 2020
Day 1: The Lock DownBefore I was prepped to leave to move across the country from NYC to LA, kicked off by a 10 day solo drive cross country, I wanted to have…Mar 20, 20201Mar 20, 20201
How BDSM Healed My PTSDI have a form of PTSD that my therapist dubbed “Happiness PTSD.” I don’t talk about it directly often (although it inspires about 90% of my…Dec 30, 2019Dec 30, 2019
Team Diversity Isn’t A MysteryYour answer to more diverse teams is right in front of you, if your screen is right in front of you.Jan 22, 2019Jan 22, 2019
Published inForgeI Don’t Care What Marie Kondo Thinks of My SpaceHow I came to love being a maximalist in a minimalist worldJan 11, 201915Jan 11, 201915
Why We WaitIt’s been almost 1 year since I had an experience at a design conference with a man who I felt acted incredibly sexually inappropriately to…Oct 1, 2018Oct 1, 2018
Showing Up Is Enough: Pole Dance, Sensual Movement + TraumaI never thought I’d be a dance, or fitness, instructor or any kind.Jul 19, 20181Jul 19, 20181
Seeing Gender in DesignI woke up crying this morning. Crying with love of the support of my friends and community, partly, but also because I’m heavy and sad. I’m…Feb 1, 2018Feb 1, 2018
Not My Industry, Not My ProblemComing up in my early career in New York City meant design (and illustration/media/advertising) industry was infused into my bloodstream…Aug 6, 20171Aug 6, 20171