Brian…first, there is no shame in borrowing. As I mentioned in the post we have done so with enthusiasm. Second, I too felt a sense of relief upon learning that we were not alone. Once I realized that, my fear went from “oh my god, what’s wrong with us” to “oh my god, if we don’t talk about this things will get so much worse.” And finally, thank you for being a faithful Nutshell customer! We appreciate your support so very much and hope the product serves you well!