I was the fat girl in class. If I could go back in time, I’d tell that fat girl to not worry what those other people think b/c it’s not going to matter 10, 20, or even 30 years from now! But, you are right. I lost 100 lbs by the time I was 20, but I still saw the fat girl and latched on to any guy that gave me attention. Now I’m 31 and married and I still have a paranoia that someday my husband will leave me if I get fat. Insecurities since our childhood stick w/us until we decide to let it go.