But what I want to explain to you is that he uses psychological weapons against me because he knows that I’m a highly sensitive and caring person. Some people might say ‘I’m weak.’ I don’t know if I agree with that label. I have put up with his shit for a long time and I’ve managed somehow to carry on without cracking, without telling anyone, without getting any help, so I kinda think really that I’m strong.
An Open Letter To My Employer In Regards To My Poor Job Performance…
Laurie B Meade

It isn’t a matter of weak vs. strong, it’s a matter of no one else can tell you how to feel or react. They can listen, and tell you they’ll do anything you need them to do to help.