I’m honestly trying to understand the main thesis here… I’m a person that derives the majority of my sexual pleasure from being able to listen and open up to my partner so that I can make her feel ecstatic, some reach climax and others don’t, but from what I’ve been told by most females that they enjoy when they reach climax (which isn’t to say they don’t enjoy the process leading up to it). For me the act of sex from foreplay beginning with our earliest “inappropriate texts” up to penetration is what I love so much. I wouldn’t mind never having another orgasm again. But I don’t see the harm in recognizing that sex is an act between two people, heavily influencing one another, and thus how each party feels is largely dependent on the actions of who they’re with. If I’m wrong, please explain to me what has a bigger impact on a sexual experience than the person you’re having sex with? Of course with masterbation you’re totally right, you determine your “climax” and no one else.
