my unsought advice:
- stay sober.
- take painting seriously. it is easier to achieve the state of flow with painting rather than with writing.
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3. freeze your egg if you really want to be a mother.
4. take good care of yourself, financially and physically.
5. let go of thought to find love. when you’ve done all the above, you have the right to be found by love. not the other way round.
all the best.